The Dissemination of Dating Game – Not All Bad
by John Max
This was posted on the Loveawake blog the other day:
I am laughing at how pathetic men on here have become with their belief in this sham known as PUA or “Game” or even this alpa (you’re gay if you believe in it [Damn it]) invented by all these companies. I seen videos where these guys represent PUA and they talk about how easily they get some girls number. But then if you notice, the girls are older or overweight. The guys think they are all that. Anyone can get that type of woman. You don’t need a guide for that shit.
They never go up to some young smoking hot babe. The reason is tt logically won’t work. If you want the hottest babes, you got to have money or be of importance especially if she is foreign or and from a country formerly communist. You’re jobless pathetic cheesey PUA techniques won’t work with model type girls whether you look like runt or a fag. I know you will say “you’re wrong and I did blah blah blah”, but guys are so pathetic these days that they consider fat girls hot.
I been all over the world, and there is reality, and then there is what you think makes you cool. If you disagree with what I say, then you’re just gay.
I should have known the fruit cakes here would flame me once you tell them the truth. They can’t logically beat my facts. I can predict the response will be something like how fat women are hot or some crap like that.
Thank god for this guy! He caught me. He caught all of us. We all go out, wait until last call, and dumpster dive for ugly fat chicks.
I’ve noticed that quite a bit of the community worries about game becoming too wide spread. That’s sort of a beta way to behave, to begin with. One of the foundational rules of the game is not worrying about the other guy – let him worry about you. But that’s beside the point. A brilliant point was made over at Roosh’s forum that there have been two best selling books about game, and a TV show on VH1 and still very few people know about it. Game is mostly known by men, and not many women will give it a second look.
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Even with the proliferation of game among men, you will still find that you wont have much competition in the field. You see, game is hard work and most guys are pretty weak willed. Sure, a lot of guys may stumble into the manosphere, attempt to learn and run some game, but by and large these men are going to be mostly beta herbs with heavy gamma tendencies who will run a grand total of six approaches – 1 on a friday, 2 on a saturday, and 3 the next friday. They will get laughed at, glared at, and shut down because the first approach always sucks. After two or three weeks of giving game a good go, they’ll walk away crying about how its bullshit, and we’ve all got to be talking out of our asses.
The next thing that goes through their heads is going to be eerily similar to woman logic. The beta will think to himself, “I haven’t gotten laid in the three weeks of life after the red pill. This is bullshit. At least I got laid occasionally (once every 8-12 months) during my blue pill days.” At this point, he will decide that game is bullshit and not worth it – I mean, no immediate results after 3 weeks of living a new life? Must be a crock of shit. So the net result of game becoming wide-spread is less competition in the field. Most men will try it, decide it doesn’t work, and then become even more ardent betas.
Is “Game” actually effective?
Yes. Extremely. And it always will be because it is founded on psychology and human evolution. You see, there are concepts in game that you will hear thrown around a lot: Hypergamy, rationalization hamster, etc. These aren’t vacuous and empty terms, to be used interchangeably in conversation as some sort of inside joke. The lingo we use has its basis in evolution, psychology and the foundations of human sexuality. Women want the most valuable male. Men want to spread their seed as far as they can. These things are both a key to the survival of our species. Men can impregnate multiple women and thus ensure their bloodline’s survival. But where men can play the odds, women are limited. Since women can’t create as many children as men, the children they create have to be worth it – strong, survivable genes to ensure a strong and surviving offspring. The concepts and tactics behind game and all the theories we build upon keep this in mind. They are all techniques to make you either appear to have higher value, or they enhance and showcase value you already have in a way you couldn’t before.
For example, we talk about having an aloof demeanor and how important it is to appear distracted or disinterested. The reason is it showcases to a woman that she is nothing special to you. The net result is the implication that you get lots of women trying to get your attention each day – and she is nothing special. If many women want you, you must have a high value – this is the concept of preselection. This triggers the woman’s hypergamous instinct (that is, the instinct to mate with the strongest and most valuable male) and makes her attracted to you. Since she wants to mate with you (her genes will it), and you are not giving her attention, she will begin to chase you. By switching the roles, holding the proper frame (that being, you are the prize, not her), and guiding the interaction, you make it immensely easier on yourself to get in her pants.
What doesn’t work with women
Being a bigger bitch than they are. No woman respects a man who cries about his feelings all the time, or a man that can’t step up and take charge of a situation when the time arises. They want to feel safe, and protected when they are around you, and they want to be lead by your masculinity. A woman wont feel safe because you cuddle her and hang on her, seemingly unable to take your hands off her. You may think she feels safe because she’s in your arms, but what you really do is come across as needy. By hanging on a woman, you demonstrate that you’re scared she’ll leave you if you aren’t holding on to her. How she perceives your cuddling and hanging is vastly different from how you may intend it.
Instead, try walking a few paces in front of her, act like she isn’t there, and let her be a woman to your man. Whenever I venue change with a woman, I let her know that this place is getting boring and I’m headed to a better party spot. When she bites, I extend the invitation for her to come as an afterthought, and when she agrees I start walking. I don’t look behind me to make sure she’s coming, I don’t hold her hand and pull her through the crowds, I just go. I know she’s following because she’s told me she wants to come. Obviously this isn’t a ‘set-in-stone’ rule and I occasionally play grab ass with her as we walk to increase kino, but for the most part I lead her to the next venue instead of dragging her there.
Understand that clingy and emotional wont make a woman fall for how sensitive you are. The way to do that is to be stoic, and detached, and then ever so carefully and on rare occasion, display emotion. Be unpredictably soft about things, but rarely show her those things. She will begin to romanticize it in her head and say, “He’s so tough and strong, but deep inside I just know he’s a softy!” and it will become her mission to pull the softy out of his leather jacket, Harley Davidson shell.
If you want to date a girl, make sure you bring out the beta every now and again. Get her two or three flowers for an anniversary (half ass it the first few times), and every once in while drop $5 on a cheap little token gift. Don’t make a big fuss, just sort of nonchalantly toss it at her – “Here, got you this.” Understand that women want to feel like you’re strong and in charge, but you also have a soft and gentle side that only she knows about. You will become her mission, and should you have put in the proper ground work and escalated correctly, her mission will have to involve a lot of fucking.
To wrap up and pull this ramble altogether: If you’re worried that game will become too widespread, don’t be. It may gain some attention, but most men that try it will fail and give up, removing themselves as competition and further strand themselves on the path to gamma-hood. The hater I quoted in the beginning proves it. Those that persevere and go on to become notch-count champions, good for them! We can all learn from one another. And understand that if you intend to date a girl long term, you need to throw a bit of beta in the mix every once and again so she feels like she’s getting somewhere and isn’t in a one-sided relationship (For more info on how to date and marry like a champ, read Athol Kay).
So be encouraged, don’t give up, and go score some tail!
