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The honesty Martin described though seemed to be more linked to fault picking or pointing out perceived imperfections! My question is what is the value of doing that? And isn’t that being judgemental? I’d much prefer to raise energy and good feelings from expressing love for others saying “you look amazing, gorgeous, fabulous”! Simple actions like smiling and power words all help to communicate love and joy. These can have a ripple effect, sending a wave of love, which may be why ideas like pay it forward are being embraced more and more e.g. Buy 1 Give 1, We Feed Kids schemes. It feels good to give, to share love in this way!

Wishing you a lovely day always – keep on evolving and experiencing the present moment. Emily x

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Also I appreciate honesty when it is given from the heart, when the intention is to raise my awareness in a loving way … eg when I have not been standing in my power – depending on others to make the decision for me. Being told that my perception is orientated on the future/past instead of being the change I want right now. I can then choose to be empowered and act differently, start making decisions, asking myself and others better questions to achieve a different result. Now that's definitely a work in progress for me … whatever happens though I am happy, loving life every moment or as much as I can until I have mastered being conscious all the time lol!

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When you are not attached to the outcome, when you are aware of what is happening for others as well as yourself, you become the witness, the one observing from a place of neutrality. You can choose the reality you create, which is what I got initially from Martin's “Know yourself and you won't see battles as battles”. Only you can make yourself happy – why not accept that everything is perfect the way it is? Things can be going wrong, feelings/emotions can be triggered that are less than perfect for sure but knowing that these pass and I can still be right here, right now loving life makes it a heck of a lot more effortless, carefree, stress free, peaceful, enjoyable.

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“Living consciously involves being genuine, listening and responding to others honestly and openly. Being in the moment.”
Sidney Poitier:-s

I wrote something different yesterday about neutrality and giving energy from a place of love. The comment got lost somewhere in cyberspace that is the divine internet because I'd not logged in! :-s

I've since been able to enjoy others comments, particularly Mitch Brown and Annie Infinitie :) Yes let's keep evolving, learning to be conscious and living in the now (the present moment) and loving ALL life.

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Now with some distance and, like Adrian, having done many years of Personal Development can see how knowing oneself and being a receiver as well as a giver has meant I have a more balanced life. In fact as the years have passed and I gain more wisdom live just keeps getting better.

Keep up the comment. With gratitude

Great you got something from the post, Margaret.
Lots of us have done Personal Development, including myself and other members. For those seeking answers within or wanting another viewpoint is why I penned the post. Also wonderful to re-take another look at ourselves as well – I do a number of various exercises, from time to time.

Life should always get better as we traverse our path (with it's little roadbumps)

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Thank you Martin for showing me how far I have come. I remember in an earlier life I was a counsellor for 15 years and saw mainly women. The lessons of knowing themselves, being a giver, honest and caring of others and it being to their detrament.

We are given such mixed messages around right and wrong and good and bad. I used to talk of selfishness and most women were horrified that I would suggest that being "selfish" was a good thing. I wish I could have given them Ayn Rand's book "The Virtue of Selfishness." I would give them that to read for greater understanding.

Thank goodness for the 15 years as it was I who needed the therapy. I used to speak to people of giving to themselves and it was sometimes like talking to a brick wall and myself.

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To the point? She's talking sex. What do I do? Turn my back. Ignore her, and don't even bother to respond. Why not? She's a 25 year old divorcee with a three year old kid. I'm not even trying to get mixed in that shit. She's pretty hot, but still. Not my cup of tea.

Over at Fedora's by myself. He's off on that booty call. The night is over. Wait, what're these messages? Jessica? I call her to see what's going on...

Me: "What's your deal?"

And she reams me. About the girls on this blog, about how everytime I'm out with her, I leave with a different chick, about how the things I say to her are just meaningless game that I probably say to every girl I want to fuck.